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Relationships
This category is dedicated to my blog posts about relationships.


3 Relationship Mistakes Anxious People Make
Hello, Everyone suffers from attachment wounds. These are the wounds that result when we don’t get the exact kind of love we need as children. We start to come to conclusions that we are unlovable as we are, that we need to earn love, and that something is fundamentally wrong with us. Here are 3 relationship mistakes people with an anxious attachment make: 1️⃣ Not giving their partner space and clingy behavior Anxiety and anxious attachment keep us from properly experiencing
Lucas Segeren
Feb 41 min read


Why Are Relationships So Challenging?
Why are relationships so challenging? Why are there so many conflicts in relationships? A fundamental reason is this: underlying attachment wounds. Inside of everyone is a wounded inner child who just wants to feel loved and safe. We unconsciously seek this love through others, objects, and experiences. Meanwhile, we can only satisfy that inner child by fully meeting it and accepting it. No one can do this for us. We want the world to love the parts of us that we can't love.
Lucas Segeren
Jan 311 min read
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